Semoga tenang di sana..

Just call my mum kat kg. Bercerita tentang insan2 yg terlebih dahulu meninggalkan kami dan dunia ini untuk bertemu Allah yg Satu. Banyak berita kematian yg ku dengar pada bulan ini. Dan teringat masa arwah atuk yang seolah-olah tau saat kematiannya yg bakal tiba..Begitu juga dgn arwah nenek. Tenang menghembuskan nafas yg terakhir dan sedikit senyuman di wajahnya..Terkadang terfikir, bagaimanakah saat kita menghadap Sakaratul Maut yg bakal tiba nanti?..Mungkin setahun lg?..sebulan lg?..Atau esok?...Atau sebentar lagi?..

Mudah2an Allah memanjangkan umur ku, umur suami ku, umur ke dua ibu bapa ku dan adik beradik ku supaya kami sempat lagi untuk memperbaiki iman dan amalan kami..Kepada yang telah pergi, hanya Doa yang dapat ku titip kan buat bekalan di sana. Mudah2an di ampunkan segala dosa, dijauhkan dari siksaan kubur dan siksaan api neraka, serta dipermudahkan perjalanan ke Syurga. Amin..Amin..Amin..Ya Rabbal A'lamin..

Mari amalkan doa ini, moga Allah menolong kita untuk berjaya mendapat Husnul khotimah (Kesudahan yang Baik).

"Robbana la tu ziq qulu bana bak da iz hadai tana wahab lana mil ladunka rahmah, innaka antal wahab"
(Ya Allah, ya Tuhan kami, janganlah kiranya Engkau pesongkan iman kami sesudah Engkau kurniakan kepada kami petunjuk. Anugerahilah kami rahmat kerana sesungguhnya Engkau Maha Pengurnia.)

"Allah humma tim lana bi husnil khotimah, Wala tah tim ‘lai na bi su il khotimah”
(Ya Allah, dapatkanlah kami kesudahan yang baik dan jauhilah kami dari kesudahan yang buruk)

Amin..

Buat yang telah pergi,...Al-Fatihah...

Sometimes, it’s The Little Things,..that Hurt the Most!

Have you ever had a moment when things are going relatively smoothly, then something small happens and your whole world is turned upside down??...

Often we think that big problems come from big incidents..

Imagine each person’s life as a house of cards. For some people, their house may be sturdy – their cards are thick and glued together. Other houses are more precarious – the cards are thin, bent, and unstable. The latter house is more quick to collapse when a new card is added to the top; the former can handle many more cards and remain standing; it takes a lot more effort to knock down this house.

Small things can cause great harm.

Many people have a tendency to be very critical of themselves when they are hurt emotionally, especially if they deem the incident that caused them pain to be insignificant. “It wasn’t really that bad,” people say. "Look at the other people. They had it worse, and they are doing fine". The problem is,.. ""They"" may not be doing as well as they appear. And each person’s history is different.

There is always someone who had it worse. Although people often say things like “it wasn’t that bad,” to comfort themselves or others, what ends up happening is that they deny their own experience, sometimes burying the pain down deep inside.

Denial doesn’t make the pain any less; it simply pushes it aside until it erupts in a different way. DENYING one’s own pain is destructive and can have lasting effects on a person’s ability to weather further difficulties in life.

So, while you may compare your difficulty with another person’s and think you shouldn’t feel as strongly as you do, there is a reason you’re reacting in that way. Strong feelings don’t come out of nowhere.

Hurt, depression, anxiety, and suffering are not a contest. There are many reasons why one person may experience trauma and be adversely affected, and another person experience a similar trauma and come out relatively unscathed. Some of this has to do with genetics; some of it’s because a person has been emotionally hurt previously and one more added trauma can bring up a flood of symptoms.
Seemingly small incidents can have a significant impact.

Most people are their own harshest critics, and the judgement they place on themselves is much more scathing than what others express. Judging yourself because of how you respond emotionally is like rubbing salt in a wound – it hurts a great deal, and does nothing to promote healing.

Accepting your feelings for what they are, and trying to understand where they come from and the reason for their intensity can be the basis for continued growth and restoration.

Weekend yang menyeronokkan!..

Yuhhhhuuuuuuuuuuuu!...Assalammualaikum & Good day everyone!..Lame rasenye x meng update blog ni..Banyak cerita sebenarnye nak kongsi tapi biasa la..ikut mood jugak nak menaip ni..Hehehehe...

2-3 minggu yang lepas merupakan hari yang sangat bz rasenye bagi aku. Bukan bz ape..Bz berjalan gi kenduri kawin sambil2 makan angin. Hehehe. Awal bulan 12 hari tu, sehari suntuk berjalan dkt Universal Studio Singapore (USS). Agak menarik dan mengujakan bila dapat datang sana and mencuba hampir kesemua permainan2 yang menarik yang ada kat situ. Antaranya adalah seperti "Transformers" (paling aku suke), "The Lost World - Jurassic Park, Waterworld", "Madagascar", "Far Far Away", "Ancient Egypy" (2nd best for me), "New York", "Hollywood" dan banyak lagi..Tapiiii...x sempat naik Roller Coster..Mase mmg betul2 singkat rasenyer. Al maklumla..just pegi sehari and ikut rombongan staff mak mertua satu family + husband:mane bley tinggal)...Hehehehe...Takpe, InsyaAllah satu hari nanti aku akan datang lg..

Minggu seterusnya,..bergerak ke Kemaman Terengganu untuk menghadiri satu majlis perkahwinan kawan hubby. Bermalam di hotel semalaman and sempat jalan2 kat area bandar Chukai Kemaman. Tak banyak yang aku beli. Cuma selendang tudung sehelai, satey, keropok lekor (wajib kalau gi Terengganu),..dan yang sewaktu dengannya. Mase nak balik dari Terengganu tu, sempat singgah kat R&R dkt area Kuantan semata-mata nak makan ikan patin masak tempoyak. Aku x makan sangat. But hubby and kawan2 lain makan la jugak. Aku rase sesikit je...(Tipuuu!...banyak jugak kot hubby suap!)..Hahahaha!...

Settle bab Terengganu, minggu ni berkemas-kemas lak nk ke Kedah. Kampung ibu mertua kuuu...Al maklum la...semenjak berkahwin 31 Ogos yang lepas, x sempat2 lagi nak pegi melawat sambil2 berkenalan ngan sedara mara sebelah suami. So hari minggu ni, ini la masanya...Huhuhuhu...Nak bawak suami melawat sedara mara aku pun x sempat2 lg ni..Kena ade plan gak...Fuhh!!!..Kalau nak di ikutkan, tiap2 minggu aku penuh dengan aktiviti. Kene rancang elok2. Kadang2 hilang rase penat..Tapi seronok..

K, lah...sampai sini dulu..Nanti aku sambung update balik ek...Kat sini cam biasa lah,..aku sertakan skit gambar2 mase kat USS ngan Kemaman tu...Enjoyyyy!!... ^_*

Me and Hubby - Version Ombak Rindu..Etcewwah!...

Friends~

At Cherating

Me and Hubby at USS

Marilyn Monroe ajak dancing la pulakkk..

Behind of "Far-Far Away" USS